It is obvious that your life is going to change drastically, no matter it’s your first, second, or third baby. You and your better half would be busy with late-night feedings, diaper duties, and maybe dropping your baby off at daycare. To get a break from all the nervousness, excitement, and mental preparation for the chaos later in life, most couples plan a ‘babymoon’ (a short vacation before having a baby).

Why take a babymoon?

In case you don’t know, a babymoon is a celebration trip, just like a honeymoon. But you spare quality time before delivery instead of being alone with your partner just after marriage. You already know that you would barely have an opportunity for a getaway once your baby arrives.

You are going to have a roller-coaster ride just after your baby arrives. It’s a kind of last adventure before birth and one last trip being a couple. You can plan a babymoon every time you get pregnant. You can go for a weekend getaway or a week’s vacation. It’s totally up to you. The key here is to have a relaxing, romantic time with your better half or have a fulfilling and refreshing trip alone.

When is it safe to go for a babymoon?

It’s totally your choice, and there is no hard-and-fast. You can plan this tour even in the third trimester. However, timing is still important to enjoy your getaway. You should feel your best to have the most memorable experience. Basically, it is during the second trimester. In the first trimester, morning sickness is prevalent, and getting sick is the last thing you would want to experience.

On the other side, you are more likely to feel uneasy and tired during the third trimester. You might also have a local journey or early delivery that can spoil your plans.

Best things to do on a babymoon

There is no rule when it comes to making the most of your babymoon. Some couples just plan a staycation (travel their own home town). You may visit a lot of attractions in an hour’s drive to visit.  For example, you can –

• Go for a quick nature trail
• Have a couple’s massage therapy
• Camp by the lakeside
• Visit a local museum
• Dine out at your favorite restaurant

No matter what you do, always look for a chance to relax. There are several ways to have a romantic and relaxing time at your own space, such as –

• Lying around with a nice book or TV.
• Shopping for new baby toys and accessories.
• Search for new baby names with him
• Binge watch new shows or movies
• Prep your meal if your due date is just around the corner.
• Design your nursery

The Takeaway

Babymoon is all about looking for the right option. There is no right or wrong way to reconnect and chill. Ask your gynecologist in Bangalore if you are flying or going out of town.